Surrogacy for Intended Parents

A path to parenthood defined by clarity, not waiting lists. Built by former surrogates to protect your finances and honor your journey.
Surrogate parenting gives intended parents a path to the family they have been hoping for, through gestational surrogacy with a screened surrogate who carries their child. For 28 years, Surrogate Alternatives has helped intended parents build their families with clear expectations, protected finances, and deeply human support from our San Diego, California headquarters. Our team is made up of current and former surrogates, so the people guiding you truly understand what you are facing.

Founder-led by former surrogate and egg donor Diana Olmeda since 1998, with 28 years of continuous agency experience in 2026.

Is Surrogacy Right for Us?

Surrogacy may be right for you if:

Many parents who come to SAI have already been through years of trying: IVF cycles, medical complications, pregnancy loss, or being told it is unsafe to carry. Others are LGBTQ+ couples or single parents who have always known they would need help to build their family. However you arrived here, you are not behind and you are not alone.
You have medical reasons or prior complications that make pregnancy unsafe or not recommended.
You have experienced repeated IVF failure or pregnancy loss and are ready to explore another path.
You are an LGBTQ+ couple or single intended parent seeking an experienced surrogacy agency.
You want a program that coordinates medical, legal, and emotional support in one place.
Why SAI

Why Parents Choose
Surrogate Alternatives

Parents trust SAI because we combine strict standards with lived experience and transparent financial protection.

100%
Financial Protection
via SeedTrust Escrow
Top 5%
Surrogate Acceptance Rate
28 yrs
Continuous Agency
Experience Since 1998
4.8★
Google Reviews
Rating

100% Financial Protection

All client funds are held in a 100% third-party escrow account through SeedTrust. SAI does not hold or control escrowed funds.

Top 5% Surrogate Acceptance

Only a small percentage of applicants move forward after a careful review process, supporting safer, more stable journeys.

Guided by People Who've Been There

Our team includes current and former surrogates and a former intended parent.

Founder-Led Since 1998, Based in San Diego

Family-owned and founder-led, with 28 years of continuous agency experience in 2026.

"Founder-led by former surrogate and egg donor Diana Olmeda since 1998."

Meet Our Founder & Team
The Process

How Our Surrogacy Program Works

Surrogacy can feel overwhelming when viewed from the outside. We break the process into clear, guided steps led by people who have personally walked this journey.

01Step 1

Connect with Our Team

You begin with a conversation, not a sales call. You share your story, goals, and questions with someone who has personal experience with surrogacy.

Personal experience on every call
02Step 2

Match Without the Wait

Unlike agencies with long paid waiting lists, our national network allows us to identify and present carefully reviewed surrogate candidates quickly. Many intended parents begin reviewing potential matches within days, not months or years. Once aligned, we move into a confirmed match and begin next steps.

Only 5% of applicants accepted
03Step 3

Medical & Legal Coordination

We coordinate directly with your fertility clinic, attorneys, and other professionals so steps remain organized and predictable.

Organized & predictable steps
04Step 4

Pregnancy, Birth & Bringing Baby Home

Our team supports you and your surrogate throughout pregnancy, delivery, and planning for birth and parentage.

Support through every milestone
Intended Parent Stories

Real Families, Real Support

Parents often tell us that feeling informed and supported mattered as much as the outcome itself.

"Having a case manager who had been a surrogate changed everything."

Jess

Intended Parent

"The Escrow structure gave us peace of mind."

Gracie & Chris

Intended Parents

NEXT STEPS

When You're Ready, We're Here

Some parents reach out to ask questions. Others are ready to begin. Wherever you are, you are welcome here.
FAQ

Quick Answers for Intended Parents

Common questions intended parents ask when starting to explore surrogacy with SAI.

Is surrogacy right for us?

What does the surrogacy process look like with Surrogate Alternatives?

How does Surrogate Alternatives coordinate with our fertility clinic and attorneys?

What kind of support does Surrogate Alternatives provide during pregnancy?

Who on the Surrogate Alternatives team has personal surrogacy experience?