Diana has done a wonderful job presenting the history and process of third-party reproduction. This book is an excellent resource for anyone considering becoming part of a surrogacy or egg donation journey. A definite read!

The Surrogacy
Blueprint
A comprehensive guide to parenthood through third-party reproduction
Written by Diana Olmeda, founder of Surrogate Alternatives, Inc. (SAI), this book offers a clear, experience-based perspective on the surrogacy journey from someone who has lived it.
“For any Intended Parents looking to expand their family, this book will help ease fears and provide clarity along the way.”

Why This Surrogacy Book Exists
After more than two decades in surrogacy, Diana saw the same questions, fears, and uncertainties come up again and again for intended parents and surrogates.
This book was created to provide a clear, honest guide grounded in real experience. It reflects not only the process, but the emotional, legal, and practical realities of the surrogacy journey.
The goal is simple: to help people move forward with confidence, clarity, and the right expectations.
“The goal is simple: to help people move forward with confidence, clarity, and the right expectations.”
— Diana Olmeda
A Rare Perspective
Diana Olmeda is the founder and CEO of Surrogate Alternatives, Inc. (SAI), established in 1998 in San Diego, California.
With over 28 years of experience in surrogacy and egg donation, she is recognized as a leading authority in the field. Diana has personally served as a two-time surrogate and a five-time egg donor, giving her a rare, firsthand understanding of the journey from every perspective.
Her work has helped bring over 4,000 babies into the world, supporting intended parents and surrogates through a process that requires both expertise and trust.
What the Book Covers
A thorough, experience-backed guide addressing every stage of the journey — the process, the decisions, the emotions, and the real stories behind them.
- Understanding the surrogacy process from start to finish
- Legal, emotional, and practical considerations
- Real stories and experiences from journeys
- How to prepare and make informed decisions

Trusted by Intended Parents, Surrogates, and Industry Professionals
Read this book and allow Diana’s 25 years of expertise to help prepare and guide you to parenthood via surrogacy. I highly recommend reading it.
The Surrogacy Blueprint is comprehensive, insightful, compassionate, concise, and packed with years of personal and professional experience. I’m grateful to finally have a resource I can confidently recommend to my clients.
What Intended Parents and
Surrogates Are Saying
This book is a true manifesto of the surrogacy journey with SAI. Diana has poured her heart into every journey, every IP, and every Surrogate. This book will help ease fears and provide clarity along the way.
The Surrogacy Blueprint has opened my eyes to so much behind-the-scenes knowledge. If you are looking to become a surrogate, egg donor, or intended parent, this is definitely the handbook for you.
Phenomenal book! Completely covers every aspect of the surrogacy process from beginning to end. This book addresses so many questions that I had when I began my journey.
This Book Is Written for You
Beginning Your Journey
Starting a surrogacy journey comes with important decisions, financial considerations, and emotional complexity.
- →Understand the full process before committing
- →Navigate legal, medical, and emotional steps with clarity
- →Avoid common mistakes and unrealistic expectations
- →Feel more confident when choosing an agency
Considering the Journey
Becoming a surrogate is a meaningful decision that requires understanding both the responsibility and the experience.
- →Understand what the journey truly involves
- →Learn what to expect physically, emotionally, and logistically
- →Gain insight from real experiences, not just guidelines
- →Decide if surrogacy is the right path for you
Also for anyone exploring third-party reproduction
Ready to move forward
with clarity?
Whether you’re beginning your research or ready to start a conversation, our team is here to guide you — without pressure, without a waiting list.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does this book actually help you understand about surrogacy?
Most people entering the surrogacy journey don’t fully understand what it takes or what’s involved at each stage.
The Surrogacy Blueprint was created to give intended parents and surrogates a clear, experience-based understanding of how a journey is meant to work from start to finish, including the emotional, legal, and practical realities along the way.
Who is this book for?
The Surrogacy Blueprint is written for intended parents, women considering becoming a surrogate, and anyone looking to better understand the surrogacy process before taking the next step.
Do I need to read this book before starting surrogacy?
No, but many intended parents and surrogates find that having a clear understanding of the process early on helps them feel more confident, informed, and prepared when moving forward.
What makes this book different from other surrogacy resources?
This book is based on over two decades of direct experience working with intended parents and surrogates, along with Diana’s personal experience as both a surrogate and egg donor.
It focuses on real expectations, real journeys, and how the process actually works in practice, not just general information.
Does the book cover both intended parents and surrogates?
Yes. The Surrogacy Blueprint provides insight into the journey from multiple perspectives, helping both intended parents and potential surrogates understand the process more clearly.
Where can I purchase the book?
The Surrogacy Blueprint is available online at Amazon.com . You can access it directly through the link on this page.