Surrogate Alternatives Walks New Jersey Families Through Every Step of Surrogacy
New Jersey gives intended parents enforceable gestational surrogacy contracts and pre-birth parentage orders under the Gestational Carrier Agreement Act. Surrogate Alternatives walks families through every step, from the first consultation through birth and parentage.
Surrogate Alternatives works with intended parents and surrogates in New Jersey from its San Diego, California headquarters. The team is made up of current and former surrogates, so the people walking you through the process have lived it. Surrogate Alternatives has been building families since 1998.

How New Jersey Surrogacy Law Protects Intended Parents and Surrogates
Gestational Surrogacy Contracts Are Enforceable Under State Law
The New Jersey Gestational Carrier Agreement Act, signed into law on May 30, 2018, makes gestational surrogacy contracts legal and enforceable. Surrogacy agreements must be in writing and signed by all parties before any medical procedures begin. Both the intended parents and the surrogate must have independent legal counsel and must complete psychological evaluations.
Pre-Birth Orders Protect Every Family Structure
New Jersey courts issue pre-birth parentage orders so intended parents are established as the legal parents to the child prior to birth. The order directs the state registrar to issue a birth certificate naming the intended parents as the legal parents to the child.
The state grants pre-birth orders to married and unmarried couples, LGBTQ+ families and single intended parents, with no genetic connection to the child required. Surrogate Alternatives coordinates with reproductive law attorneys to manage contracts, pre-birth orders and parentage throughout the process.
Independent Legal Representation Is Required for All Parties
The Gestational Carrier Agreement Act requires that both the intended parents and the surrogate have independent legal counsel before the agreement is signed. This requirement ensures that each party fully understands their rights and obligations under the contract before any medical procedures begin. Neither side can waive this protection. Surrogate Alternatives coordinates with experienced reproductive law attorneys to ensure all parties are represented and that agreements meet every statutory requirement under New Jersey law.
How Intended Parents in New Jersey Work with Surrogate Alternatives
Surrogate Alternatives serves New Jersey intended parents from its San Diego headquarters. Intended parents connect with the team by phone, video or in person for a free, no-obligation consultation, where an agency director walks them through the full surrogacy process and answers questions about medical, legal and financial requirements.
The journey follows four phases: consultation, matching, medical and legal coordination, then pregnancy and birth. There is no waiting list. Many intended parents begin reviewing potential matches within days, based on compatibility rather than location. Only about 5% of surrogate applicants move forward after screening.
Surrogate Alternatives coordinates with reproductive law attorneys to manage contracts, pre-birth orders and parentage. All client funds are held in a 100% third-party escrow account through SeedTrust, and Surrogate Alternatives does not hold or control escrowed funds at any point.

Become a Surrogate in New Jersey and Help a Family Grow
Surrogate Alternatives is looking for qualified, caring women in New Jersey who want to give intended parents the family they have been hoping for. The team includes current and former surrogates who provide support, guidance and competitive compensation throughout the journey.

Becoming a Surrogate
Surrogate Alternatives requires candidates to have at least one prior healthy pregnancy and delivery. Candidates must maintain a healthy lifestyle, be free from illegal substances and tobacco, be financially stable and be a U.S. citizen or permanent resident. The Gestational Carrier Agreement Act requires surrogates to be at least 21 years old. After matching, surrogates complete a psychological evaluation and medical screening.
How Surrogates Are Compensated
New Jersey law structures surrogate compensation as reasonable living expenses and costs rather than base compensation. Surrogate Alternatives offers competitive compensation within this framework, with experienced surrogates eligible for higher rates. Additional compensation is provided for a twin pregnancy, and surrogates receive a monthly non-accountable expense allowance and a maternity clothing allowance. All compensation is managed through third-party escrow.
Ongoing Wellness and Community
Surrogate Alternatives provides a Pregnancy Wellness Program that includes dietary and nutritional counseling, acupuncture, massage and prenatal vitamins. Surrogate Alternatives was the first surrogacy agency to offer a wellness package. Surrogates also have access to an online support group, mentorship from experienced surrogates and annual retreats. A 24/7 emergency line is available to reach management throughout the journey.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Surrogacy in California
Is surrogacy legal in New Jersey?
Surrogate Alternatives works with intended parents and surrogates in New Jersey under the Gestational Carrier Agreement Act, signed into law on May 30, 2018. The state recognizes gestational surrogacy with enforceable contracts and pre-birth parentage orders so intended parents are established as the legal parents to the child prior to birth.
How much does surrogacy cost for intended parents working with Surrogate Alternatives in New Jersey?
Surrogate Alternatives provides intended parents with a detailed cost breakdown before the journey begins. Total costs include but are not limited to surrogate compensation, medical and insurance expenses, legal fees and agency fees. Agency fees are fixed, and all remaining costs are explained in advance. All client funds are held in a 100% third-party escrow account through SeedTrust.
How does surrogate compensation work in New Jersey?
Surrogate Alternatives structures compensation in accordance with New Jersey law, which requires that all payments to surrogates be associated with reasonable living expenses and costs. Surrogates receive competitive compensation within this framework, with experienced surrogates eligible for higher rates. Additional compensation is provided for a twin pregnancy. All compensation is managed through third-party escrow.
Does insurance cover surrogate pregnancies in New Jersey?
Surrogate Alternatives reviews insurance options with a licensed insurance broker during open enrollment. After match, Surrogate Alternatives assists intended parents with connecting directly with the broker to obtain information about coverage options so families understand these costs before the journey begins. The state mandates IVF coverage for group plans with 50 or more employees, which may reduce medical costs for intended parents. The surrogate's prenatal and delivery care depends on her existing health plan, and many policies contain surrogacy exclusions.
Do I need to live in New Jersey to work with Surrogate Alternatives?
Surrogate Alternatives serves intended parents nationwide from its San Diego headquarters. The state does not require residency, but at least one party must reside there or the birth must occur there for the Gestational Carrier Agreement Act to apply. Surrogate Alternatives coordinates all medical, legal and logistical details regardless of where the intended parents live.
Does Surrogate Alternatives support LGBTQ+ intended parents in New Jersey?
Surrogate Alternatives proudly supports LGBTQ+ couples and individuals building families through surrogacy. The Gestational Carrier Agreement Act extends equal protections to all intended parents regardless of marital status, sexual orientation or genetic connection to the child. Same-sex parents are listed as "Parent" and "Parent" on New Jersey birth certificates.
Does New Jersey allow traditional surrogacy?
Surrogate Alternatives works exclusively with gestational surrogates, where the surrogate has no genetic connection to the child. The Gestational Carrier Agreement Act covers gestational surrogacy only. Traditional surrogacy contracts are not enforceable under New Jersey law, and most agencies and reproductive law attorneys recommend gestational surrogacy for the clearest legal pathway.
What are the requirements to become a surrogate in New Jersey with Surrogate Alternatives?
Surrogate Alternatives requires surrogate candidates to have at least one prior healthy pregnancy and delivery, maintain a healthy lifestyle, be free from illegal substances and tobacco and meet the agency's age and health guidelines. The Gestational Carrier Agreement Act requires surrogates to be at least 21 years old. After matching, surrogates complete a psychological evaluation and medical screening.
How much are surrogates compensated in New Jersey through Surrogate Alternatives?
Surrogate Alternatives offers competitive compensation structured as reasonable living expenses and costs in accordance with New Jersey law. Experienced surrogates are eligible for higher rates. Additional compensation is provided for a twin pregnancy. Surrogates also receive a monthly non-accountable expense allowance, maternity clothing allowance and access to the Surrogate Alternatives Pregnancy Wellness Program. All compensation is managed through third-party escrow.
What happens if the intended parent and surrogate are in different states?
Surrogate Alternatives manages multi-state surrogacy journeys where intended parents and surrogates live in different locations. Surrogate Alternatives coordinates with fertility clinics, monitoring clinics and attorneys in both states. If a surrogate in New Jersey is matched with intended parents elsewhere, Surrogate Alternatives arranges local monitoring and refers to a reproductive attorney with experience in both jurisdictions.